Thursday, July 31, 2014

Again and Again Life Changes

Changes, again, are just around the corner. This time they are less drastic but just as tough and potentially life changing. You would think that after 20+ years of constant changing and adjusting I would, in some way, get used to it. Nope, still just as scary as before. The only real difference is that I know now that I can survive anything. Literally, anything that comes my way I know I can manage and make it through, even the worst-case scenarios. Minus an impending doom but let’s face it there’s no control in that situation anyway so why worry? I got this, I think.

After getting passed over for the PAS fall internship, the last month or so has brought about a new job, which I quite enjoy. Driving a horse drawn carriage around downtown Indianapolis. This is a job that honestly seemed unattainable for some reason. But after seeing a large handful of carriages downtown one day I got up the courage to call and ask one of the companies if they were looking for drivers, assuming they would turn me down because they were already well into their busy season. After an interview in person I started training just a few weeks later. The only thing that postponed my training was going out on tour with the Lindsey Stirling crew for a week. After I returned from the tour I wrapped up the PAS spring internship and began training on my evenings after the museum.

I’ve been driving a carriage solo (senza trainer) for three weeks now and I can say that its one of the best jobs I’ve had in a long time. Mind you, its still a job not playing drums, buts its definitely at the top of my “Skills to Maintain” list for future work. It’s really nice because you get to work independently most of the night, improvising routes to keep on time, working through traffic with a 2000 lb. draft horse and carriage, and expecting the unexpected because when Roxie (my horse) senses a skateboard anywhere near, its time to go whether there are cars in front of her or not. So be aware the next time you cut off a horse drawn carriage to make your turn downtown. The drivers have planned ahead to ensure enough room to move if anything happens, but if you suddenly take away all control by cutting in front of them, don’t be surprised if you end up with hoof prints in your trunk. Besides that getting paid weekly is wonderful as well as tips on a nightly basis. The constantly flow of money, regardless of how big or small, makes it much easier to plan for the future.

On top of all of that, I found out yesterday that I will be returning to the Lindsey Stirling crew for her European tour in October. This is a major development, as it will now allow Madison and I to make the move to Orlando with far less stress than anticipated. The week I spent out with the tour previously was such a great experience that I jumped at the opportunity to do it again. This time will be for roughly six weeks. The tough part of this is that it puts a huge space between Madison and I for a period of time, which is not what we need right now. But she knows as well as I do, that we need this. Not only is it a good amount of money to bring home to pay for our move and settle in a better place, but its a grand opportunity for me as a musician and stagehand to network and build upon the years of groundwork I’ve been laying out.


So for the next two months I will continue driving carriages, then off to Europe for a six-week tour. When I return I will continue driving carriages through the holiday season and then by the end of the year I will be moved to Orlando with my beautiful girlfriend and at least one of her dogs (Minnie), the other dog (Darcy) and the rest of our things from Utah will hopefully follow soon after. Lots of planning and lots of logistics to work out but moving to Orlando I will have more than a handful of opportunities to pursue for work: musician, stagehand at SIR and LMG, and now carriage driver. Thanks to years of hard work and determination, and lots of help from supportive friends and family things are slowly coming together.

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