Relationships

I've come to realize that through out my entire life I've never really grown up with or seen very many positive relationships. Aside from what Hollywood tells us what relationships are supposed to be, my actual life experience and knowledge are very limited in the arena. I do realize that I am a hopeless romantic in so many ways, but shouldn't a good/positive relationship be pretty easy going and no major conflicts (other than maybe big ones like kids, houses...etc). Most days I just want someone that I can talk to, someone that is happy to see me and wants to hug me when they don't see me for days or weeks. Neither party should have to walk on eggshells around the other, in fear that they might upset the way of things. I feel like it should be as easy as breathing.